Before I go into how I ended up back in Alabama, let me explain a little bit more about child protective services Palm Beach...
After running away from my rental with my daughter when DCF told me of my husbands extensive criminal history I ended up in Palm City with my friends family. I felt safe. My daughter by this time was experiencing night terrors. She would wake in the night screaming, kicking, fighting. Were my fears confirmed once again!!! I was already afraid of my husband because of the severe emotional abuse I had went through when I was with him, DCF had confirmed he really was a monster with his extensive criminal history now my child is having night terrors. What happened??
I called a 1-800 number and they directed me to a place called Tykes and Teens. It is a place where lets say.... Holistic psychologist deal with children and abuse. Go ahead, check out their credentials. Tykes and Teens in Palm City Florida. This is who I am sent to to determine if abuse had happened. I mean, by now I knew for sure he did something. DCF in Palm Beach confirmed my biggest fear!
By now, Palm Beach closed their case after they came out that one time, no investigation, no evidence. There was no investigation. They came out to the rental, sat my then, 3 year old down on the couch for 10 minutes with the police and strangers there questioning her, a month after the shelter contacted them.... Yeah, good job investigating. Then go on to tell me of the extensive criminal history they found on my husband.
Now, in Palm city, moved once again to get away from the man I feared, I was trying to figure out why this child was having these night terrors so another case was opened after I called the 1-800 number. She saw the psychologist twice for play time and it was then we had to go back to Alabama for court.
Here's what my psychopath had on me so far..
I left Alabama with a small child and went to Florida. (We already had the rental there, the house in Alabama was immediately sold by him)
DCF in Palm Beach opened an investigation and closed it with no findings.
I moved yet again with a small child to Palm City.
Another investigation is opened.
I am shaken and out of my mind. I have a small child and am living off my friends and borrowing money from everyone, getting farther and farther in debt. "Bitch, you leave me, don't even think your getting a drop of child support from me. women die over that shit."
I was so afraid of him. I was also trying to pull myself out of the mental abuse he had put me through. I was trying to keep my sanity. My daughter was all I could think about. I had to protect her. He threatened me for so long that he would take her if I left him that I believed him.
What he was acting like:
Very calm
Very cool
The side I saw was him was telling me he was going to kill me, the side everyone else saw was how much of a victim he was and I was hurting the man that loved me. He is the victim. He is heartbroken and saddened, he is a really nice guy. "I don't understand why she is behaving like this, she must be crazy.."
"Bitch I will kill you" (No one hears his threats but me, oh yeah, and my girlfriend and one of his coworkers who backed down from testifying the truth).
"I would never say that, I love her"
"I'm gonna get you"
"I don't know why she is being so mean to me"
"Bitch watch your back"
I am stoned by the world for behaving the way I did. How dare I put this poor man through this. He is a really nice guy. He is the victim..
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